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SUCCESS SECRETS IN LIFE




If Things Go wrong,
            -Don't wait for other to change,start change with yourself.
If what you are doing isn't working,
          -Do something different..By Dali Carnegie




HOW TO FIND THE COURAGE TO TAKE THAT FIRST STEP
 By Ryan Murdock


To get the courage to take that first step. You just need to focus on two things: hate and desperation.

1)  Hate:you have to hate where you are right now so much that staying the same is far worse than  the discomfort it’ll take you to change. 
2) Desperation:sometimes you have to back yourself into a corner so you’re forced to come up with creative solutions.


SECRET THING,GIRLS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GUYS

I laughed so hard when I read this and I just had to share it 


  • Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone. 
  •  Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. 
  •  Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're going to say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes. 
  •   Guys go crazy over a girl's smile when they’re attracted to them.
  • &#8901 Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.
  • &#8901 Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.
  •   A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
  •  Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.
  •   Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.
  •   Guys get jealous easily.
  •   Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.
  Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. 
  •   Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
  • Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.
  • Girls are guys' weaknesses. 
  • Guys are very open about themselves. 
  • It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long. 
  •  If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. 
  • Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships. 
  • Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused. 
  •  If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl. 
  •  Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.                      
                          To Be continue...............


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How to Live in a life!!

Because there is a big difference between living and merely existing…
  • Educate yourself until the day you die. – The time and energy you invest in your education will change your life.  You are a product of what you know.  The more knowledge you acquire, the more control you have over your life.
  • Take good care of your body. – Your body is the greatest tool you’ll ever own.  It impacts every step you take and every move you make.  Nourish it, exercise it, and rest it.
  • Excel at what you do. – There’s no point in doing something if you aren’t going to do it right.  Excel at your work and excel at your hobbies.  Develop a reputation for yourself, a reputation for consistent excellence.
  • Live below your means. – Live a comfortable life, not a wasteful one.  Do not spend to impress others.  Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking wealth is measured in material objects.  Manage your money wisely so your money does not manage you.  Always live well below your means.
  • Be self-sufficient. – Freedom is the greatest gift.  Self-sufficiency is the greatest freedom.
  • Build a comfortable, loving household. – Home is where the heart is.  Your home should be comfortable and lined with love.  It should be a place that brings the whole family together.
  • Always be honest with yourself and others. – Living a life of honesty creates peace of mind, and peace of mind is priceless.
  • Respect elders.  Respect minors.  Respect everyone. – There are no boundaries or classes that define a group of people that deserve to be respected.  Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother.
  • Mix it up.  Try different things. – Seek as many new life experiences as possible and be sure to share them with the people you love.  After all, your life’s story is simply a string of experiences.  The more experiences you have, the more interesting your story gets.
  • Take full ownership of your actions. – Either you own up to your actions or your actions will ultimately own you.
  • Over-deliver on all your promises. – Some people habitually make promises they are just barely able to fulfill.  They promise perfection and deliver mediocrity.  If you want to boost your personal value, do the exact opposite. Slightly under-sell your capabilities so that you’re always able to over-deliver.  It will seem to others like you’re habitually going above and beyond the call of duty.
  • Listen more.  Talk less. – The more you listen and the less you talk, the more you will learn and the less you will miss.
  • Reflect on your goals and direction. – Not doing so is committing to wasteful misdirection.  The process of self reflection helps maintain a conscious awareness of where you’ve been and where you intend to go, giving you the ability to realign your trajectory when necessary.
  • Leave time for spontaneous excursions. – Sometimes opportunity knocks at unexpected times.  Make sure you have enough flexibility in your schedule to respond accordingly.
  • Spend as much time as possible with the people you love. – Human beings are emotional creatures.  Family and close friends makeup the core of your emotional support system.  The more you nurture them, the more they will nurture you.
  • Be here now. – Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you.  Right now is life.  Don’t miss it.

There is Help and there is hope!


Sometimes life can be so difficult, frustrating, and painful. There are times when we need someone to talk to who will listen, understand and care. There are times when we feel stuck and just don't know what to do. It can be something that has been going on for a very long time, or it might have come on suddenly and unexpectedly. Either way, these are times when we need help. We need hope that things can change and get better. We want to know someone cares, understands, and can walk alongside us to help and encourage us.


Oftentimes, there are things that keep us from living the life we want to live. We do not always know how to overcome obstacles on our own. We may feel stuck and not know what to do next. We might think we have run out of options or that things will never change or get better. Depression counseling can help us to get unstuck and renew our hope again. We can gain inner strength and faith that we can and will overcome obstacles and problems instead of letting them overcome us. most of us want to see better days ahead and live with a sense of purpose in our lives. We want to be whole and walk in victory. We want peace to rule in our lives, and to have confidence in who we are and what we can do. We want to have loving relationships with mutual trust and respect.



Trouble arrives in measures and we stack it up real high,until we're convinced,we have no reason to try.If you feel defeated,youare absolutely wrong!!If you follow your dream,you could never lose for long.Ignore the minor set-backs that pile up and trouble you,or you will build a mountain,out of the stones hurled at you.The future holds great promise,your destiny unknown,but God is always helping,and you're never alone.Soar bravely toward your goal.Let nothing darken the way.You can change your tomorrow,if you seek your dream today.